- - Love is.... - -

Actually, I read this before somewhere and I like it very much....luckily I come across this thing again and I can put it in my blog. I translate it and modify it a little bit and hopefully will not affect the real meaning and the "art" behind it....

Love is just like a butterfly. The more you chase after it....the more it will run away.
But, if you let it fly, it will come to you when you least expected it. Love can only make you happy but often makes you sad. Love only precious when you give it to someone who knows how to appreciate it.

Don't rush.....and choose the best. Love is not about how to be a perfect soul mate for someone but how to find someone who can help you to be your true self. And because of that, you are perfect.

Don't ever say I love you.....if you don't care. Don't ever talk about the feeling that never exists. Don't ever touch someone's life if it will only break his or her heart. Don't ever look into his or her eyes if all that you did full of lies. The cruelest thing that someone can do to others is by letting him or her to fall in love while you don't intend to catch him or her.

Love not " This is your fault" but " Forgive me". It's not " Where are you???" but "I'm here". It's not " What do you think you are doing???" but " I understand ". It's not " If only you are like this " but " I love you just the way you are.....".

The right compatibility is not measured base on how long and how often both of you are together. But when both of you are together, both of you always complete each others' life and make life to have more quality.

Sadness and longing only felt as long as you want them to and cut through your heart as deep as you allow them to. The hardest thing is not how to bear sadness and longing, but how to learn from them.

Ways to fall in love : fall but do not stagger, be consistent but do not use force....sharing and do not be unfair, understand and try not to demand for too much........sad but do not keep that sadness.

It hurts to see the person you love is happy being with someone else, but it hurts more when the person you love is unhappy being with you. Love hurts when you are parted with someone, it hurts more when you are forgotten by your lover, and it hurts most if the person that you love did not know how you truly felt.

The saddest thing in life is to find someone and fall in love, and only to discover that he or she is not meant for you when you had spent your time for the person who never appreciates it. If he or she is not worth it now, he or she will not worth it for another year or even ten year........ So......just let him or her go.........

Remember, that love will come to you...just like butterfly. It will come to you when you least expected it. God create us with our own soul mate. We only need fate, time and effort to find the "one". I read somewhere before that our pinkies are tied with red string that is very very long and it is connected to our soul mate....I believe this...

Hopefully, I can wait patiently for love to come to me....and always remember these wise words =).

Zero-X ranted @ 9:09 PM ;
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